I’ve had many calls recently with potential workshop attendees and I love sharing memories of previous workshops. I’ve seen and heard it all for the past 9 years now, since I was a participant myself. One of the most common themes is the powerful...
Read moreMy First 3 Guest Speaker Events – Behind the Scenes
I was asked to be a guest speaker at 3 networking events last month, and they all fell in the same week! When it rains, it pours! Without hesitation, I said yes, despite the old familiar feeling of anxiety creeping in! I’ve been facilitating...
Read moreA Detailed Plan of Action
One helpful way to start taking action is to be held accountable with your commitment to overcome this fear. Accountability will eliminate the time and effort you spend on unproductive behavior, leading to procrastination. Creating and...
Read moreStop Limiting Yourself by Your Past and Move Forward with Self-Confidence
Your body and mind processed that first flood of anxiety as trauma and has been reacting to it ever since. No matter what the cause or severity of it was, all you can do is recognize why your body and mind react the way they do and move forward...
Read moreMy Recent Anxiety Setback and What I Did About It
My anxiety setback was awful. I got out of the routine of practicing my social and speaking anxiety maintenance towards the end of last year due to circumstances that needed my attention more. It hit me hard the first week of January. I...
Read moreStepping Stones and Hierarchies
I lived my life feeling overly anxious for many years, too caught up in the cycle of fear to do anything about it. Living a self-limited life. Until the pain of staying where I was, the avoidance and self-induced guilt of not trying to change...
Read moreHow are frantically cleaning house and social/public speaking anxiety related?
Is your home a mess again after all that cleaning for holiday visitors?Why is it that we go all out cleaning for company and not for ourselves when we actually live there? What if you didn’t wait until the last minute to clean and were...
Read moreAre You a Bully or An Ally?
Our lives are like a story constantly unfolding in front of us. And we are continuously narrating the events of this story to ourselves as they evolve. Much like a narrator in a book explains what’s happening in the plot, we talk to ourselves in...
Read moreCognitive Distortions – Are you a Minimizer or Magnifier?
I hosted a follow up call and heard about amazing progress from the members of the Getting Over StageFright workshop group this past September – such as volunteering to speak in front of an auditorium size audience, giving impromptu...
Read moreIf Only I Knew Why This Fear Started, I Could Get Over It.
I’ve heard this hundreds of times – you want to get to the root of your fear and hope it will solve the problem. Unfortunately, it won’t although it doesn’t hurt to explore it. It can get into deep discussions, such as the Nature (Genetics) vs...
Read moreHave You Had Enough? What’s the Worst That Can Happen?
It’s back to school time. I can’t help but remember how painful it was for me for so many years. I spent way too much time trying to figure out which professors assigned presentations and how to get out of them as soon as I saw the syllabus. My...
Read moreTo Medicate or Not to Medicate…that is the Question
Is it a crutch, a stepping stone, or does it depend on the situation? This question has come up often at the workshop and on the follow up calls for decades. Many people report that they don’t like the idea of using a medication as it feels...
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